GenX Adulting Podcast - Episode 59 - GenX Speaks Series: Jon Wellington - The Dadbod Veteran


In this episode we welcome Jon Wellington, also known as The Dadbod Veteran. Jon shares about his GenX childhood in Charleston, South Carolina, which included growing up on a military base as well as experiencing a civilian upbringing. We learn about his ADHD diagnosis, and how medication combined with therapy and coping tools helped him downshift and find a balance that allowed him to thrive. We learn about how his love of football became a focal point in his life in addition to helping him find purpose during his high school years after the loss of his father to cancer. Joining the Navy coincided with becoming a young father, and we reflect on the sacrifices military families make as Jon shares about his extensive travels around the world when he served as an FC, or Fire Controlman. Shore Duty brought Jon back home to Charleston and his family, and we discuss the differences between corporate and military as he transitioned between the two. Jon shares about having a blended family and his beautifully unique situation, and we learn about the moment The Dadbod Veteran was born. As The Dadbod Veteran’s audience grew, so did more opportunities and experiences. An inquiry form Sherri Dindal, also known as The Real Slim Sherri, led to the phenomenon that is now known as The GenX Takeover. Together with GenX personalities Nick Harrison aka The Professor, Kelly Manno and of course, The Real Slim Sherri, Jon has become part of a touring comedy show that has literally taken on a life of its own. With comedian Justin Rupple as emcee, and musician Jojo Malagar added to the show, the GenX Takeover Tour has amassed such a following that they have 26 shows, and counting, booked for 2026! We marvel at Jon’s inspiring journey from military to corporate to stand-up comedy, as he offers us a glimpse into his method of preparation before he steps on stage. It truly is a courageous undertaking at any age, but especially to brave it midlife. The feat is even more impressive considering Jon just underwent hip surgery, a journey he candidly shares with us. Jon’s blend of military and corporate background, combined with his obvious pride and love for his wife and children, quick wit and quiet intelligence and courage to do the non-normative thing midlife is sure to inspire many GenX listeners. We truly enjoyed our conversation with Jon and can’t wait to attend another show!

Chapters:

00:00 Intro

00:56 Family Background

04:00 Being Diagnosed With ADHD

10:27 The Gen Alphas

12:45 The Evolution of Charleston, South Carolina

35:38 Elementary and Middle School

41:52 The Role of Connection: Reality vs Technology

43:33 Losing Father to Cancer During High School

51:35 Spanking As An Acceptable Parenting Tool

55:13 Joining the Military After Graduation

01:04:25 Memorable Experiences in Foreign Ports

01:10:04 Serving During 9/11

01:20:36 The Sacrifice of the Military Family

01:23:09 Shipbuilding and Radar Systems

01:26:49 Returning to Charleston and Family Life While on Shore Duty

01:31:56 Transitioning from Military to Corporate

01:37:52 Blending Families and Co-Parenting Dynamics

01:45:30 From Factory to Working From Home

01:47:18 Global Event Security for Mercedes

01:51:54 Becoming The Dadbod Veteran

02:09:18 The GenX Takeover Tour

02:27:04 NASCAR Experience

02:29:46 AARP Sponsorship

02:31:03 Early Tour Stops and The Growth of The GenX Takeover

02:38:18 Method of Preparation and Handling Stage Fright

02:43:18 Hip Surgery Journey

02:47:44 Getting Back Out On The Road

02:52:14 Inspiring GenX

02:58:20 An Adventure in Scotland With Charles MacLean

03:07:41 5 Year Vision

03:13:52 Outro

Check Jon Out Here:

Website and Store: https://thedadbodveteran.com/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thedadbodveteran?lang=en

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedadbodveteran/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thedadbodveteran

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Dadbodveteran

Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/dbveteran

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https://www.genxadultingpodcast.com/

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